Point 9 Mediator
The growth edge for the Point 9 Mediator is learning to set boundaries and be direct.
"Peace and harmony."
Where Attention & Energy Go Against Personal Growth
Control through stubbornness and passive anger
Difficulty saying 'no' - attending to the needs of others
Difficulty with personal decisions - Do I agree or disagree?
Ability to recognize and support many other viewpoints
Acting through habit - repeating familiar solutions to the situation
Containment of anger and physical energy around own needs
Belief that one can gain belonging/comfort by 'forgetting the self'
Focus energy on sensing and merging to fulfill wishes of the other
Replacement of own essential needs with inessential substitutes
The tone and color of these tendencies will vary depending upon your instinctual subtype
Enneagram Mediator Look-Alikes
Point 2 & 9 -- Both want to please and meet others needs, lose awareness of own needs
9's - Reactive, blend in, disperse energy to create comfort, image unchanged
2's - Active, focus attention on what others need, alters to meet those needs, alters image
Point 4 & 9 -- Both connection focused, caring, can get 'lost,' feel deficient, self-deprecating
9's - Orient toward others, blend in, like to keep life steady to keep it comfortable, avoid conflict
4's - Orients toward self, attached to being special, goes to extreme depths in order to feel vital
Point 5 & 9 -- Both can be retracted, inwardly thoughtful, withdraw from external influences
9's - Least able to detach, blends with others and goes along to keep life harmonious / comfortable
5's - Detaches from others, asserts boundaries in self-protection
Point 7 & 9 -- Both want to please and meet others needs, lose awareness of own needs
9's - Point 9 Mediator is reactive, blends in, disperses energy to create comfort, image unchanged
7's - Active, focus attention on what others need, alters to meet those needs, alters image
Learn how a Point 9 Mediator can benefit from the upcoming Enneagram Panel Workshop.